It’s true that the only thing you can change is yourself and so the question is = Will you?
There is an old saying”
“When the pain of staying the sam becomes greater than the pain of changing, you’ll change.”
How much pain can you tolerate or get used to? Have you become so used to a life of limits that you refuse to grow and become all you were meant to be?
Change is how you got to where you are today and change is how you will become better, more successful and happier.