Ralph Carlson Blog

Stress?

This has been an eventful week.  What I mean is that so far there have been more events than normal. When I have weeks like that I am stressed.  I don’t like stress.  So, of course, the higher number of events is seldom scheduled from my action.  It comes from indirect activity of mine or because of somebody else.

Maybe not

This is a problem.  I can handle these events.  I am resourceful and resilient and the events are never so complex and difficult as they seem in my fantasies.  To protect myself from stress, I don’t schedule my calendar full of activities and when my calendar is not full, I waste time on non-essential activities.  I miss working up to my full capabilities and the path to my goals is longer than it needs to be.

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